Sometimes we have a situation where a particular
stakeholder, maybe a manager or a client or customer which makes the issue more
difficult, is a complainer. They complain about everything all the time. Some
people are simply like that. And we allow for that and tolerated for humor the
manager was doing that. But sometimes the complaining gets in the way. When you
have a meeting and the first 20 minutes of that hour-long meeting I spent
listening to complaints and the last 20 minutes are spent listening to complaints
then you were losing quite a bit of time and that is quite a bit of
productivity and money. So the question is what can you do about the manager or
anyone for that matter who spends an inordinate amount of time complaining?
A complaint always reflects an unmet expectation. Someone
expect something to happen and it does not happen, or expect that it shouldn’t
happen and it does.
An unmet expectation is a problem. Using Jerry Weinberg’s
definition of a problem: “the difference between the way things are and
someone’s perception of the way things should be” we can see that an
expectation is someone’s perception of the way things should be and that does
not match the way things are.
So when a complaint occurs it is a signal, a trigger, to
begin a problem solving process.